Thanks for checking out my profile. I'm a military guy, looking to hopefully meet some friends, with or without benefits. "With" is great..."without" is good too. I enjoy chat, casual meetings, simple per to per interaction, that doesn't always have to include sex. If we decide to go there, great. If not, that's cool too. Anyhow, just to be straightforward from the get-go, I am married, but on this site by myself (without her knowledge). I am not looking to change that, at least not yet. Let's just say it's complicated (isn't it always) and something I'd rather not get into here in an open forum. That means I am not looking for a serious long term relationship, for those that are taking notes. If you're not cool with that, you're not going to be cool with the rest of this...stop reading and move on to the next profile. Ultimately, I am a genuinely nice guy and a consummate gentleman. Some may argue that statement contradicts with the paragraph directly above, and maybe you're right, who knows. I suppose it's all perspective. I love to talk, laugh, eat, drink, and enjoy the finer things life has to offer. I am nothing if not casual, happy, and fun loving. We only go around once, and I'm taking full advantage of this ride while we're on it. I am not a player (not sure I would even know how to be) and I am not the type to plunder around inside any warm, wet thing that throws itself at me. Friends with bennies? Sounds great, but the 'friends' aspect makes the 'benefits' that much better. I absolutely adore the sight, smell, feel, and taste of a beautiful woman. I live for the tingle of a first kiss, and love when the second is even better. I can spend all day exploring a woman's body, but am also always down for a quick sweaty mid day romp to fulfill the basic carnal desires that can strike when you least expect them. I love the feeling of wanting and being wanted, and am all about making a woman feel that, both in anticipation of our encounters and during the times we spend together. I know from reading and from experience that this site is teeming with fakes, frauds, time wasters, and god knows what else. If you even think you fall into any of those categories, please do not contact me. That being said, I have had the pleasure of getting to know some great people from this site and am thankful for those opportunities and hope they continue. I hope to continue connecting online and in per with people of the same caliber as those I have met already. By the way, I will send you a picture if you want one...but understand that in some cases, I need to make sure you are "safe" before I send one and may not be willing to send a pic until I get to know at least a little bit about who you are. I am not going to be dishonest about who I am, but am very cautious about that kind of thing as I'm sure you can understand. I have a network friends album and if you request me as a friend I'll add you so you can see me that way too.

My Ideal Person If you're still reading this, that's a good sign I suppose.

Someone who is looking for fun, for a friend, for a gentleman who is passionate about life and would love to share a little of that with a special person.

Any of the above may apply.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Way too many to name.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'll get back to you on that.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I'm more into sex with real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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