if you say your not here for a hook up or fwb I respect that and I know how to be respectful. Then we are chatting for a bit and I am still not coming onto you is not because I'm prude. Its because I'm still respecting your wishes. If I'm not aware the boundaries have changed some people get all mad. That is throwing mixed signals and that is how you destroy someone's boundaries. Mine are important to me. And it's also important you have some. When you express them it is a act of love you show yourself. well who are we kidding, i spent good money on this site, might as well put my darkest desires down or die with them with regret! I am very turned on by the image of a woman, Im not insecure or intimidated by women with power, actually confidence is quite sexy and i encourage it. ive always wanted to try pegging, but has never admitted that except 1 time and that was the moment that she started to let go. I carry the image of a man and am told that I am hot for that, though i would not think that if I was limiting my sexual apitte to just females. guys are more willing to expain why im so attractive, I think most females keep that to them selves to keep us on the shelves. the cheat is the lie, and never the act. and if someone is afraid to express their desire with their partner then why have a partner. and if a partner is going to be insecure and afraid to tossed aside by the urges of whom they are with and act all crazy then you desurved to get lied to, they trusted youb enough to be honest. My responce to, "why did you lie to me" has always been, "Why did I feel like I had to"!

My Ideal Person open minded, willing to consider some one younger, honest about sexual impulses honest about wants and needs and expectations, needs scaffolding to get mind in the gutter. Confident! both about their body and in the mind.
not the type to gossip, willing to put them self first. I will always put me first. that way if I have me and you have you then we should not have to carry each other.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
mr bungle\mike patton

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
my partyner comes home one day early and catches me there
stark naked with a rubber chicken deep thoating my cock
and her dillrod scratching an itch that just seems so out
of reach solo. at first she is a little shocked then a little
curious, then she decides that just maybe she will turn
this tragic little event in to a oppertunity to fine tune
a few motions that i just seen to miss. then she says, "hey,
I know a game that we can play thats really fun and even educational,
it will be tomorrows suprise." havieng being caught with
my pants down and get caught cheating with a rubber chicken
playiing her favorite role I think it is going to be over
the suprize will be her leaving for her day and not coming
back. my imagination is not alway my friend sol i go there.
imagining her freinds. then that escalated to her brothers
and her dad coming for her belonging, i could almost imagine
her mom with a big discustewd look on her face. she was a little later then usual right about the time I started
getting the knot twisting in my tummy and someone standing
on my chest she walks in the house, then she casually askedf
if I got my new lover a cab out of here or just tossed it in the
dirtry clothes hamper to get flushed out! gawd I was so emberessed,
then she said, so how about the educational I mentioned...
she then ordered me into the bedroom. as I was sitting there
she walks in and she is wearing this belt like aperatis that
looked part panties with this thing right where a dick would
be, she says in a very controlling dominant voice that maybe
I needed flushed out like my girl freind, the rubber chicken,
i couldn't believe my eyes she was wearing a strap on. as i was doing what i had to do the excitment kept building
and building. when i was done she had the strap on fully equipped
with a pretty thick skin toned rubber dick, then said "I
and going to grease this up and slide it in you the same exact
way I love getting fucked, then as you get that down you can
start to demonstrate how you like to! then she says i want
you ass up and your head down NOW!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, very creative, oncoragable

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
the lady in walmart that has no business wearing spandex
but is sporting that shit anyway, that everyone wants to
be with. not because her ill sense of fashon, but, becuase
she is as loose with her wallet as she is with her body.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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