Hello there! Thanks for stopping by. I will probably update this later, but here are some bullet points for now.. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* physically: 48 y.o. male, clean, in good shape, active and looking for/open to all kinds of activities (obviously including, but not limited to, the stated purpose of this site). \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* mentally: stable. Oh, well, at least I hope I am. Who's the judge. Normal, sane, no drama and no stress. Or rather, we all do experience stress, I guess, but I can deal with mine. I hope that's good (and fair) enough. Positive, glass half full kind of guy (but always happy and willing to fill it to the rim, feel free to join, we could do it together) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* life: busy overworked professional. Doesn't it say it all. Or at least a lot. Trying to balance work, life, activities, responsibilities, fun, and loving it. Always up for fun, challenge, new things to try, new ideas, experiences, places (did not mean it sexually per se, but it's funny the way it came out). \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* status: separated for very long time (bit not legally, for those who care). As a matter of fact, for those who care, and particularly for those who have 'absolutely no married men whatsoever' in their profiles, in bold capital letters: if it's the potential hassle you wouldn't want to deal with, I certainly understand and respect that; but if that's because you are too judgmental/playing saint then let's respectfully part our ways - you probably deal in black and white and we most likely won't hit it off anyway. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Looking for: I really do not have a checklist to match, or a particular arrangement to make, or even a particular fantasy to fulfill. I am trying to live this life, keep my eyes open, and not pass on a good thing. Or two. I am definitely interested in finding interesting, exciting, intelligent, open-minded friends, I guess that's about the most generic definition I can offer. And no, I did not forget why we are all here on this site, not for a second. So yes, it's *that* kind of a friend ;) But it's always about chemistry, mental and physical attraction, so the best we can do is to give it a try and see where it leads. I am also very open to all kinds of "regular" activities - a concert, a night of dancing, visiting a museum/gallery or relaxing in a lounge with a drink (or two, or three). Or a hiking or ski trip. Apres-ski is a nice thing to end the day with too ;) In fact that's probably the ideal scenario, finding friends (with benefits) would be nice indeed, but I am definitely not a prude and have nothing against purely physical arrangement. So... why don't we just talk and try it out and make the most out of this life we were granted with for some obscure reason :)