IdeallyI'm looking for a woman that will get off on encouraging me to explore all our dirty thoughts together without feeling judged by the other for them. You should be able to Express your freakiest thoughts and sexual desires and want to hear mine without either of us feeling weird or awkward for sharing them. I'm looking for a woman that I can actually be friends with and want to hang out with and talk to. I work hard all week so like to party and have fun on the weekends with someone fun. Then if if leads to something sexual I need a woman that is as open and uninhibited sexually as I am. I'm not into anything to crazy or hardcore kinky but I want a woman that is open to exploring whatever we both think will be fun. With the right woman I have very few hangups but that's with the right woman and not just anyone. Without some sort of connection it's just glorified masturbation and I can do that by myself. The more into something you are the more I'll be into it also. If you cant trust your partner with all of your dirty thoughts then why bother. I will never judge anyones kinks, and will not tolerate being judged for mine. If you are the kind if person that feels doing something freaky in bed for fun somehow defines you as a person in normal life then we are probably not a match. We all have our own definition of kinky and what I person feels is immoral or to freaky 100 others will love so just be honest about what you are and are not into so that we are not wasting each others time.