I'm seeking couples who would enjoy meeting a respectful man of professional background who places his emphasis on the woman's pleasure and has the experience to follow through. I honor the expectations and preferences of lifestyle participants. I am also actively seeking a single lady interested in swinging as part of a long-term relationship. This trim, fit 25-year lifestyle veteran is a widower who was part of a long-time lifestyle couple. I'm looking for couples and ladies who appreciate a tactful, considerate gentleman who understands the correct approach when a couple or lady considers inviting a single male to join them. I am pleased to meet those seeking ongoing friendship outside the bedroom or those wanting discreet, NSA fun to protect their privacy. I'm a retired member of a recognized profession; 5'11", 170, in the eighty fifth percentile in terms of "other measurements", in excellent health and still a repeat performer with experience swinging both as a single and as a couple with my wife. My interests include travel, theater, relaxing conversation around the fire pit and (of course) the freedom and excitement of this lifestyle. My experiences have included threesomes, full swap with other couples and group activities. My wife and I occasionally attended club events and house parties, but we preferred meeting couples or singles one on one. I am not bi but am long familiar and comfortable with the male-to-male contact that comes with threesomes. I respect other's interests and aim to please. I'm located in the southwest Chicago suburbs. I enjoy meeting for a social get together so that you can be certain there is a connection. I can also host in my lake community home once we have developed a comfort level. As summer approaches, I'm looking forward to afternoons and evenings in my privacy fenced backyard with a two-tier deck, heated inground, saltwater pool, fire table and pond and enjoy sharing it. (This is my idea of a worthwhile retirement.) If you have come this far, please be aware of the fact I have been doing this since the days of the hard copy swinger's magazines and the use of post office boxes for communication. My first threesome as a young single guy took place over 35 years ago and with breaks along the way I have at least 25 years of lifestyle experience. I have seen many couple profiles here and elsewhere where they mention aggressive single males and people who are all talk but back out of face-to-face meetings. If you have an interest in single men, these things will not happen with me.

My Ideal Person I am height, weight proportionate and seek the same. I hope to correspond with those close enough so we can meet socially to ensure interest. While "Baby Boom" or "Generation X" couples will feel right at home with me, I am not concerned about age differences. If you are a younger couple or woman who would like to meet older men, I'm right here, flattered and all ears!