[SIZE 3][B][COLOR green]If what you are looking for is the human equivalent of fast food, or a vending machine, then please move on to the next profile.[/B][/SIZE][/COLOR] Communications that have the tone of wanting to "hook up" without getting to know each other a bit first are likely to be met with a cold response or no response at all. I am selective, and am interested in [B][I]quality[/I][/B] and [B]not quantity[/B], as such I like to get to know each other a bit first. While I enjoy simple "vanilla" sex, I particularly enjoy "gourmet" sex seaed with sexual variety and exploration. I am always respectful of limits, but am eager to find the edges of those limits in myself and others. Regardless of the "flavor," I am [I]very[/I] giving and [I]very[/I] oral, so ladies who enjoy receiving pleasure of this kind are particularly welcome. While this should not be considered a challenge, I believe I am almost unshockable. Which I think makes me an excellent candidate for those wishing to explore their secret desires and fantasies. I [U][I]won't[/I][/U] promise that I will be eager to participate in all fantasy fulfillments, but I [I][U]will promise[/U][/I] that I will not judge whatever fantasies you may have. I have a full beard and mustache, but I am shaved upstairs as well as downstairs. :D I wear glasses, and things get a bit blurry without them. It's ok though; I've learned to find my way by touch alone :D. I am reaably attractive but am mistaken for a model only on rare occasions. [I][COLOR green]"Face" photos are available, but will not be available until we communicate a bit for professional reas.[/COLOR][/I] [COLOR darkblue][B][U]A note about safe sex.[/U][/B] Like many, I definitely prefer the feel of skin on skin. However, there are a few "gifts that keep on giving" that are never welcome. As such, a condom is required for all intercourse until appropriate medical tests are in place, and/or a significant amount of trust and communication has been established. While this is not my first choice, but it is non-negotiable.[/COLOR] Till we get to know each other better, you can call me Lazarus Long, or simply Laz. [I](Bonus points if you get the literary reference. It should be noted, that is has to do with an attitude or life outlook, and not some "boast.")[/I] [SIZE 1][I][COLOR crim]***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.*** [/COLOR][/I][/SIZE]

My Ideal Person What I am looking for covers a lot of ground, and I am not normally one to close myself off to possibilities, but since that is not really much help… I will list a few of my favorite hopes.

First and foremost I am a fan of the words of one or Robert Heinlein's characters, who said: "Sex should be friendly. Otherwise stick to mechanical toys; it's more sanitary."

1) A select female for a open and honest long-term friendship with benefits. Ideally this lady would be very sexual, with a high sex drive, and love both simple "vanilla" sex, but also enjoy sexual experimentation in an emotionally and physically safe environment. I am open to a the possibility of a romantic/emotional relationship developing as well, but it is not required.

While married women who are looking to play without their partners are welcome, and discretion is a given, I am not looking to add more drama to my life - particularly the kind associated with an upset partner. Therefore, I would prefer ladies who have an understanding with their partner. No judgments - just trying to keep it fun.

2) A special couple seeking a third for friendship and erotic fun. Similar to the situation listed above, but in this case I would be an addition to another couple's erotic fun.

Since I am looking for a long-term playmate, I prefer to contact folks who are local (15-20 mile radius). There is a little wiggle in this number, but I have had more than my share of long-distance relationships. Similarly I am a non-smoker, and while I have friends who are smokers, generally I will shy away from smokers.

I am eager to exchange emails, photos, and chat sessions in the spirit of getting to know each other, and feeling comfortable, but I am real, and am interested in meeting people - I am not interested in simply playing out an online fantasy. If online only is where you want to play, then please continue looking, and happy hunting. On the flip side, and as already stated, I am not likely to be drawn to initial messages which boil down to "Liked your profile, let's do it." I am looking for a bit more connection than that.

If any of this sounds interesting, please send me a message. I reply personally to all emails that fit the outline of what I am looking for described in this profile.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dixie Chicks, Paul Simon, James Taylor, Mellisa Etheridge

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, All of the above

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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