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No Thank You it stings only for a min 11/6/2012
We once had to have the most awkward of "No -Way back
in the beginning, our first encounter actually..before
the internet..so you spent time on the phone getting info
and mental pictures from their descriptions. After a number
of conversations we all agreed to drive half the distance
to the other and meet for coffee.
They had got there first and looking for the car we drove
and as we ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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at least you replied. 10/24/2012
If I see someone has viewed me, or has flirted with me, I check
for them on the IM. If I do happen to find them there, I like
to shoot them a message asking if they actually did. Most
times they don't even respond, which is much worse
than someone actually taking the time to tell me that they
did, but aren't interested or that they accidentally
clicked on my profile.
It means a lot for ...
6 Comments, 112 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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drugs are bad 10/22/2012
sometimes when I date a girl, she comes up with this stupid
idea to do drugs, weed or white powder. It's really annoying, as if drugs enhance your stamina
or improve your mindset
you just have to say no thanks, bang her and move on...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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What's the problem? 10/17/2012
I don't believe a lot of people understand
what the two words 'no thanks' means. How many
times does a person need to say it? ...
6 Comments, 96 Views,
23 Votes
,3.60 Score
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When Did Common Courtesy Go Out the Window? 10/17/2012
I am truly amazed at the rude behavior being exhibited on
AdultFriendFinder these days. It hasn't always been this way. Ten
years ago, people were much more courteous and kind. If
you were not their type, they would politely say so.
Today, someone will message me or I them and once they realize
I'm married or not "perfect", they simply
disconnect without so much as a "sorry, your not my
type" or ...
6 Comments, 102 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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seriously people? 10/3/2012
I completely understand that most guys my age are a complete
pain in the ass and would probably make horrible swing partners
but I would really love the common courtesy of a simple thanks
but I/we are not interested.
2 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Why are folks afraid to say "not interested", "thanks anyway", etc... 9/11/2012
Having been on here a while now, I have met some cool folks
and exchanged emails here and off the site. What I just don't
get though is the lack of response from members...
I've read and talked with others about how the sites
full of fakes, nobody is real, etc...
Is that the reason for lack of response? Or is it lack of decency
or some feeling of superiority? Something else?? ...
2 Comments, 65 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Courtesy is very easy to offer 7/9/2012
We can't account for the behavior of other people but
we can account for our own behavior. Being on an adult sight
doesn't give anyone a license to be a jerk.
There are lots of folks here without photos or any identifying
information which I understand completely but the shame
is that this level of anonymity often leads to very bad behavior...in
other words a lack of general human ...
6 Comments, 53 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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No Thank you to Smokers 7/8/2012
I say over and over No thankyou .why cant a person understand
No thankyou Im alergic to tobbacco. No matter how you try
cover it up how sexy you think you are or how youll quit after
No thankyou .I like to breathe
5 Comments, 70 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Distance Rejection 6/5/2012
I reject people who live more than 100 miles away and they
get very upset typically. I dont understand why so many
long distance people contact me and why they get huffy when
I say no. Just happened todat with somone over 2000 miles
away, and NO photo to send!
6 Comments, 98 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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I just cant 6/5/2012
Have you ever had that one guy that no matter how much you
tell yourself no and that you can do better still gets to
you some how? Well I have a guy like that. Ever since the first
time we hooked up I just cant say no. He can go without talking
to me for a month but when he calls me or texts me to hook up
I fight a little or make myself unavailable, but the sex
is so hot that I just give in ...
6 Comments, 133 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Offended 6/5/2012
WHY do single men, get offended when a couple tells you NO,
even when its posted ALL OVER OUR Fing PAGE?
Morons.
2 Comments, 87 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Let's try it 6/5/2012
Small cub Friend alway say no ? He saw he wanted only he he had a big dick but he was all total
safe -sez bottom. Good sex ass and friend for me.I says being
a Total Top yes!
Small cub, finding top guys to bend his little ass oversize-ones
with a thanks.
1 Comments, 19 Views,
0 Votes
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How do you do it ? 5/28/2012
How do you say "no thanks" to someone without
coming across rude?
2 Comments, 55 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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We think No means No 5/20/2012
If someone is hesitant in any way shape or form then respect
of their wish is imperative.
2 Comments, 56 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Ok this has been on my mind... 4/29/2012
so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer
guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails
and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them
down?
9 Comments, 212 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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I'm just not Interested 4/24/2012
I get a number of emails, some i find very interesting and
others i don't...I have no problem with respectfully
declineing anyone if i don't feel there is a honest
attraction....But i have noticed that i get alot of rude
and tasteless emails as a reply, so my question is should
i just ignore those that i'm not interested in or do
i continue being repectful and letting them know that i'm
not ...
6 Comments, 134 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Where are the manners? 4/11/2012
I get it...not everyone is gonna be compatible and there
is some amount of pure physical attraction that needs to
go on for a connection to happen. BUT if there isn't,
why can't people just say "thanks, nice meeting
you, but i'm not interested".
Dunno, seems pretty simple and much nicer than ending the
conversation, never to hear from them again - message is
the same, but just a more ...
5 Comments, 93 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Please dont be a dick 3/11/2012
My profile plainly states im looking for a specific thing
so please dont be a dick when you contact me and show what
you dont have and im not interested. I know that makes me
sound like a bitch i just know what i want and if you dont have
it dont pretend you do in my opion your actualy the douch
for wasting our time.
4 Comments, 225 Views,
18 Votes
,3.94 Score
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What is so hard about saying no thanks/what is so hard about accepting no thanks? 2/8/2012
For the ladies
If a guy consistently emails and emails and emails, or tries
to hard in any way, with no established relationship its
easy, Im just not interested, but thank you, its very flattering.
If a guy shows up on a date and he's not your type, it is
uncomfortable, but the fake cell phone call about your
//family member having a fever is way worse
than just saying "I just don't ...
4 Comments, 66 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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I always say NO when... 2/7/2012
I get a message that is completely idiotic. I will not even
give anybody a second if they message me and the first thing
they say is "let me suck you". I like to talk to
people and see who they are, what they are about!
4 Comments, 98 Views,
11 Votes
,6.35 Score
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Condom use 1/27/2012
i have been rejected a couple of times because i want to wear
condoms all the time...why do women turn me away because
i am concerned about my health, not to mention i might have
no idea if they are 100% clean or not?
6 Comments, 197 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score
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Why stand women up? 1/8/2012
Ok I don't get it.All the guys on here bitch and moan
about the lack of women willing to meet but how many of you
ladies have been left hanging at an agreed meeting place/time?I've
run into 2 so far and i know there are others out there that
have done it to some of you.So I have started a new group to
try and help weed out the repeat offenders and let others
know not to waste their time.My time ...
16 Comments, 265 Views,
25 Votes
,6.01 Score
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Lets just face the fact 1/8/2012
Being all "adults" here at this site, it seems
to me that we could use a Little common courtesy. Its ok to
let someone know if your not interested, "thanks,
but no thanks". I don't think there's anything
wrong with that. Its not hard to understand, its our que
to move on. And move on we should. Rejection is a part of being
on this site. Lets just face that fact and go on and still
have fun.
7 Comments, 120 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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always be both polite and firm 1/1/2012
I have found that when I am not interested in someone that
being honest is best, you should try to be polite but firm,
that way it spares hard feelings and embarasment for them.
the honesty should be appreciated.their feelings may
be a little hurt, but they will respect you for being honest.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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saying no 12/22/2011
I have been talking to someone for quite awhile now but it
seems like its going no where. Then all of a sudden they want
to me. How do I say no to them but do it nice so I don't burn
any bridges?
2 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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a gentle way 12/19/2011
One of the most frustrating things on dating sites like
this is the limbo that members put you in by not replying.
You probably sent a letter, maybe even a follow-up or two.
No answer + no reply = NO COURTESY. No one likes to wonder
and guess what's going on, so just send a simple reply.
You don't have to write a lengthy letter of explanation,
just a few words. Keep in mind we are all SUPPOSEDLY ...
13 Comments, 288 Views,
29 Votes
,6.85 Score
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no means no 12/18/2011
i'm 22..am i old fashioned to think that everyone should
understand that NO MEANS NO?
2 Comments, 110 Views,
20 Votes
,4.53 Score
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Whatever! 12/6/2011
I don't believe a lot of people understand
what the two words no thanks means. How many times does a
person need to say it? ...
16 Comments, 160 Views,
33 Votes
,5.99 Score
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Rejected because I wear condoms 11/24/2011
I recently met an attractive woman on this site. We talked
for a little bit, then talked about meeting up. She asked
me if I was fine with having sex without using condoms. At
first I thought it was a joke, but she was very serious. I
politely declined. Everyone be smart and be safe theres
a lot of nasty things out there that can alter your life forever.
2 Comments, 67 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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