Of Mouse and Men...  

Melbass56 57F  
117 posts
3/27/2020 11:01 pm
Of Mouse and Men...


Aaaannnddd...another one bites the dust!!! Once again...you leave shaking my fucking head!! What is it going take get thru you?? We're really not that hard understand!! We pretty much spell everything out for you...tell you straight out what we want and expect...yet...you either choose ignore us...or.. you're just plain stupid!! I can't decide!! Really...I'm torn!! We give you every opportunity...and sometimes two...yet you still fuck up!! I have to ask myself...again...is it a bad connection somewhere upstairs?? If I whisper in your ear...will it echo?? Please...somebody...just put me out of my misery. I have given guys soooo many chances. Listened to sooo much bullshit...and still gave them chance after chance!! ( I know what your thinking... how stupid could I be?) But...the fact is..I still have a glimmer of hope in humanity, because every now and then...if we look hard enough...we can see it. It comes when we least expect it...which in my opinion...should be now! Especially in light of what our society is facing...being unselfish, considerate and respectful to each other should be paramount. Don't get me wrong...I totally understand the dire situation WE are all facing right now. And WE are all trying to figure this out. But...that's the thing...WE are all in the same boat! I have been trying to instill this mindset into you guys for months now. Stop making excuses...cause you know what...right now...there aren't any. Take time to stop and smell the roses. Because now you have the time. But...they STILL don't get it!! Sooo....you guessed it..." I was working". ( The oldie but goodie....hasn't failed me yet.) Too busy to take one minute to text me hi...just like YOU said you would! Yup....that one simple text could have sealed the deal for you...but...you were too busy "working your ass off". OOHHH... I'm sooo sorry!!! I'll just sit here and patiently wait for YOU!! So whenever YOUR ready...you just give me a call and I'll come a runnin with bells on...or not!!! If thats what you're expecting...you have a better chance of growing a third nut! Here's the best part...when I give him the "what for" and proceed to tell him to stop being selfish...again...he does exactly what every other guy has done. Yup...you guessed it again...he ignores me like the coward that he is. Doesn't even have the decency to apologize. These are the guys the women on here have to deal with...every time we log on.( Lucky us.) Are we dealing with men....or mice? Maybe I just need to build myself a better mouse trap!!

Paulxx001 63M  
16519 posts
3/27/2020 11:34 pm

nope... sounds to me like you're doing ok.
fire your HR department though - they need better critical people skills.
Besides that... r ya gonna give him a second chance or is that it? 🤔
just curious... 🍷🍷


Melbass56 replies on 3/28/2020 8:59 am:
Forget HR...I need a publicist!!! LOL. Absolutely not! He sort of already had a second chance. I gave him my number twice. We exchanged kik...talked a bit on there...then he deleted it. I'm pretty sure he's married or attached. Of course...he lied about that. Duh!

BiJack55 70M  
213 posts
3/28/2020 1:35 am

You know what. I just looked at your profile and by the pictures without knowing you I'd say either they are stupid or you are just picking the wrong guys. Your beautiful and sexy. Maybe you need to revisit your parameters in what you are looking for.


Melbass56 replies on 3/28/2020 9:02 am:
Thank u! But...in actuality...I'm not looking anymore. But, I am not opposed to chatting with a guy if I feel a little connection. ( Most beg me to chat with them...but...I am very picky and usually don't answer now...sorry...but I have to be that way now.) He started this...but...as usual...fucked up. So now...we're done. Plain and simple.

dogslife2live01 68M
1855 posts
3/28/2020 4:48 am

What is it going take get thru you?? We're really not that hard understand!! We pretty much spell everything out for you...tell you straight out what we want and expect.

call me an old fool but some things sound more like dictations rather than discussions...
but i did enjoy your rant

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Melbass56 replies on 3/28/2020 9:04 am:
Of course you would call it a "dick" tation. But...it's true...and it is just that...a rant.

notsure1949 71M
9578 posts
3/28/2020 5:05 am

some people just look at photos and do not take the time to read profiles or read blogs, just hope you are well


Melbass56 replies on 3/28/2020 9:04 am:
What are they in kindergarten?

adventure1618 52M
2 posts
3/28/2020 5:12 am

Attractive women can get all they guys they want. That's the problem. Guys will flirt, be nice, sweet, tell her what she wants to hear, etc., but they are attracted to her looks, they are smitten by them, and men's brains don't start working until later, often after sex. If you want a guy who cares for you, you need to find a way to get his brain working earlier than sex. Then, you are either compatible or not, but at least you know, and you don't have to give up your body to find out.


Melbass56 replies on 3/28/2020 9:07 am:
Ohhh trust me!! I do not give up my body! If he can't be attentive and hold a conversation...we're done. And I really make it easy for these guys...but alas...they fuck it up every time! All he had to do was text me hi the next day...and he couldn't even handle that. And that...is all I need to know. Sayonara asshole!

Paulxx001 63M  
16519 posts
3/28/2020 10:24 am

hmmm... he probably DID lie.
Don't u women have some sort of built in lie detector? 🤔
I like k i k... it a cute way to stay in touch.


Melbass56 replies on 3/28/2020 8:32 pm:
Yes...for most its called 6th sense...but I am too easy and i give people te benefit of the doubt. Silly me!!!

dogslife2live01 68M
1855 posts
3/29/2020 3:33 am

Of course you would call it a "dick" tation. But...it's true...and it is just that...a rant.

seems your thoughts are on the long and hard. i am confident they will soften with time


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Melbass56 replies on 3/29/2020 5:56 pm:
I am really a softee...but...when a man does something stupid or moronic...I feel like they need to know. Unfortunately...those aren't the ones reading my blogs.

dogslife2live01 68M
1855 posts
3/30/2020 5:45 am

.I feel like they need to know. Unfortunately...those aren't the ones reading my blogs.
or if they read, they are sure you are writing about some jerk they never met


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


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