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AliOrbit 67F
624 posts
2/20/2020 7:50 pm

I was. Then you contacted me.


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
2/20/2020 8:02 pm

lol just say "more than you will ever have " then delete them !


wet_n_restless 42F
10 posts
2/20/2020 8:08 pm

none of their business if you've had a "play date" or not. It's not like they're your husband or something.


moses4862 66M  
333 posts
2/20/2020 8:10 pm

Just be honest ??????????


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
2/20/2020 8:10 pm

I'd keep it simple....

"Of course!" (He doesn't need anything more than that)
But you could also use "None of your business" or "More than you"
Alternate them - it'll get asked again by someone else, for sure.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


1ALLNYTR 59M
248 posts
2/20/2020 8:27 pm

Lol,yes or no should work for an answer


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
2/20/2020 8:30 pm

I would say yes and leave it at that!! lol


monroeguy48 53M

2/20/2020 8:32 pm

you could say something like, "It's all fun n games till somebody loses an eye!" and wait to see if they respond.

Gunter glieben glauchen globen


469tall 75M
16824 posts
2/20/2020 8:37 pm

If you don't want to hear from him again, "Up until now I have been."



The perversity of the universe is unbounded.


Archimage_CA 61M

2/20/2020 8:41 pm

Hi SweetCirc the answer most would give is *Non of your Business,,lol *


Archimage_CA 61M

2/20/2020 8:43 pm

SweetCirce
FYI we chatted before but lost touch when other profile got hacked, we chatted before you went to Vancouver!!!


matureGV 79M

2/20/2020 8:48 pm

Simply ask them what is your definition of fun puts them on the spot I know you shouldn't answer a question with a question but on here anything goes


h4rry66 57M

2/20/2020 8:51 pm

Hey beautiful, I've had some online cam to cam fun where both the lady I'm chatting with and I have been playing with ourselves for each other to watch, but not a great deal of actual physical contact or sex. I suppose cam to cam is a good start. Shall we givectyatva ho sometime?


Footballer13912 43M

2/20/2020 8:53 pm

Maybe they are just trying to start up a conversation with you. I typically aske how they are and if anything is going on tonight with them.


oldcowby 64M
155 posts
2/20/2020 9:00 pm

every day is a fun day


idblueswoman 65F  
830 posts
2/20/2020 9:03 pm

I reply with yes and comment on all things non sexual. I hate when men say they are looking for fun. Sex is enjoyable, but nice don't think of it as "fun".


Dawg2144 58M
9 posts
2/20/2020 9:27 pm

I feel that it is up to you when it comes to telling them if you have or not. What we all do here should just come done to weather you have a good time are not are the people who are involved.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

2/20/2020 9:32 pm

You should simply thank them for saving you the effort of having to consider them

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
2/20/2020 9:59 pm

Seem to getting a plague of them, the single - dont know how to approch people -male


bottomXelite 30M
17 posts
2/20/2020 10:03 pm

Yes


1mediocremuse 65M  
155 posts
2/20/2020 10:13 pm

More than you know and will ever experience lol


1AKA_FABIO 73M
70 posts
2/20/2020 10:27 pm

I don't kiss & tell.


karekare99 55M

2/20/2020 10:29 pm

I guess because it's nicer than asking how many cocks have been in you this week? lol


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
2/20/2020 10:54 pm

Hey Darlin,
...........Guys say Stupid Shit, who’d of thought?!?!.............
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
2/21/2020 4:25 am

depending if they write anything besides that .. fun can mean alot of things.. it doesnt always mean dating or sex... with some men it can be just a way to start a friendly conversation.. feel the person out some before you judge for sure


12barbluz 71M
13 posts
2/21/2020 7:32 am

"So what do you consider fun?' .....might get you to the best implication of the question and go from there.
The nasty old Bitch comment from the 40 year olds shows real class. Not!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

2/21/2020 8:47 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much for quoting that guy, had you not done so none of us would have seen it considering she deleted his comment!

I don't agree with his way of saying it, but he was at least honest and to the point. Besides, its probably what most were thinking just too afraid to say it.

No matter what any guy says, you all want to bitch about it!

I say "Hi"... oh how boring try doing something to catch my attention... ok so...

I say " I have a 12" cock as thick as a Coke can and I want to stuff it in your ass"
Female response.... Oh you are here just for sex....uh duh! It is a sex site...smh

So instead of coming out and saying something like that a guy starts off with..."Hey hows it going, having any luck"
Female response.... Fuck you it isn't any of your business...! LOL

Considering half the females on here are just here "to chat" or "blog" or "look around", most should be happy guys will even bother messaging.

Its a no win situation for males on here. No matter how hard they try or how many hoops they jump through its not enough.

Ladies, put yourself in these guys positions. Look at it from a different perspective. Be thankful that someone took a few seconds out of their day to send you a message! Not that you owe them anything, I'm not saying that, but if no guys messaged you or commented on your blogs to give you attention, you'd go somewhere else to get it. And then probably bitch about it...!

Guys, get a set of balls and a backbone. Don't be rude, but don't sit here telling the person "oh how right you are"... It isn't getting you brownie points. There was maybe one or two guys who actually posted an honest answer. But most were just responses to make the lady who posted this happy.... It also make you look more desperate than the guys who actually send messages to women sounding desperate. Basically stop being sack swingers.

Every males response should have been more along the lines of.... "He was being nice and trying to break the ice with you and wasn't being rude, you should appreciate that not ridicule it"


Livin_my_Life14 53F

2/21/2020 8:58 am

yes, the nail in my eye tells me so!

I get the question all the time. I just don’t reply back.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
2/21/2020 11:18 am

    Quoting  :

I agree... it's just striking up an initial conversation... I usually say.. define fun.. and then lie


gentlemale49 74M

2/21/2020 12:11 pm

I was until I read this message.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
2/21/2020 3:14 pm

Because of my tag line on my profile "I can't even begin to describe the fun I'm having here...." I get asked about "fun" all the time. They try to tell me my profile says I'm having fun. Ummmm....no. That's not what it says. Then I tell them to define "fun". Often I have to tell them it's not something they need to know anything about. That never makes them happy. lol

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
2/21/2020 3:15 pm

"And it's a favourite come-on. Not sure why."

They are hoping you will describe your fun (where fun means sex) for their titillation.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
2/21/2020 4:44 pm

I haven't really gotten that one but I've gotten its cousin "Looking for fun?" quite a few times. I'll say "Sure! Let's go play miniature golf at Blackbeards!" Or something like that. Good sex is only a subset of fun so you could go with any of the many suggestions upthread and let them fret.


Trev7778 36M
26 posts
2/23/2020 11:08 am

Yes indeed! You-have it! And you are in the drivers seat


naughtystud4you 53M
16 posts
3/6/2020 9:46 am

Agreed....it appears the basics of initiating a conversation have become a lost basic skill with social media. Where are days of old when we wrote letters to one another and it was exciting to get a hand written letter in the mail? Here there can at least be a little bit of a lead in before everything goes crazy naughty!


RMforkixx 59M

3/7/2020 7:12 pm

    Quoting wet_n_restless:
    none of their business if you've had a "play date" or not. It's not like they're your husband or something.
I keep forgetting ...most of you have them....grrrrrr


RMforkixx 59M

3/12/2020 7:28 pm

yes husbands


scottj55555 55M
1987 posts
3/15/2020 1:38 am

How about "Well, I was, until you just interrupted me."


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
3/18/2020 3:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Excuse me, but are you serious with this response ?
S M H

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


hornybbc69 64M
181 posts
5/13/2020 8:51 am

its always a fun day ....tomorrow better than today.......lol


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